How Motivation Develops Love Relationship

Motivation is the inner strength that enables each person to achieve own aspirations and goals in life. Love relationships are almost entirely driven by this inner strength. Despite this fact, motivation loses value with time and ends love relationships prematurely. Understanding how motivation develops a love relationship vital in making it last.

Motivation thrives on the threshold of self accomplishments. Past successes especially when one had to surmount major hurdles serves well to build motivation. This extends inside love relationships. The following outline gives an idea of how motivation develops love relationship and why lovers should aim to make it part of their own being:

• Enables in decision making: One of the major challenges in love relationship is making a decision to be in a relationship or not. Making the decision is difficult because it involves some level of risk taking. However, the inner strength convinces one that he/she can face the challenge. Such a person must find a reason enough that would make them accept to take the decision of beginning a relationship. Motivation convinces a person that such a decision would improve his/her future life and hence accepts or denies whichever decision helps in improving their future. Thus less motivated individuals will find it difficult to accept to be in love relationship while others will enter into one not taking much consideration of future repercussions.
• Gives reservoir of resources in time of need: It is a fact that love relationship does not consist of joy from day one to infinity. Times come when lovers are not in good terms with each other. Such are the moments, when unchecked leads to premature end of love relationships. At such moments, the inner strength becomes handy in sorting issues concerned. At the depth of each one during such moments is the desire to bring solution. This desire arises out of the reservoir built by motivational moments of the past in each of the parties. Most of the resources needed in sorting out any of the issue at hand are stored by self motivation.
• Breeds creativity: Creativity is blood that runs in the arteries of love relationships. Lovers need to be creative to enhance their love moments. Creativity cannot be without inner conviction and strength. When motivation is highest among lovers, it prompts them to think of ways that can increase it. This creativity goes a long way in enabling such lovers take up new assignments aimed at increasing their mutual pleasure, joy, fulfillment and meaning.
• Gives focus and direction to the love relationship: You cannot think about motivation and not think about the future. Motivated lovers are forward looking and plans for their future. Motivation enables such lovers to create their own future projects and exercises. Motivated lovers experience most out of their relationships for they are able to forge their desired future and work towards achieving it.

When you appreciate this role of motivation in building love relationship, it then occurs to you that motivation is a key ingredient within relationships. In fact, one can safely take the position that lack of motivation in love relationships explain the high rates of pain caused by failed relationships. Should you take that position, then all efforts are to be devoted to ensure that motivation increases within relationships and even so in marriage unions.